Senor Barborito wrote:

When I look at stereotypical German Men (yes, capital 'M'), with the planar faces, the strong brow & jawlines, the excellent chin so common to the breed, the huge shoulders (OK, that's the women too) and chests - I say to myself, "Holy fuck is he hot." Those of you who've seen Legolas in the Lord of the Rings movie know *EXACTLY* what I'm talking about albeit for a different set of attributes, so shut the fuck up. I'm not sexually stimulated (and therefore not ashamed) at all, it's not the kind of thing that would ever in a million years give me an erection - the very sight of men in porn doesn't just turn me off, it gets me very, very angry. That's MY woman, you fucking asshole, get the fuck away from her. No, her too - they're all MINE, goddamnit. The few times I've seen gay porn (with German Men ensuite) I've busted out laughing.

Therefore, I believe that what a person 'likes' is an entirely seperate issue from what they find arousing -

1) tits
2) a flat stomach and
3) no pubes around the vagina arouse me.

When you tie 'attraction' to 'arousal' I grow deeply concerned because that doesn't describe what I've got going internally at all. Cue comments from the rest of the board about how I'm all fucked up mentally to begin with.

We all approach sexuality fundamentally differently. Me? I want to kill off all the men...

Personally I don't think I really have all that much business discussing what does and does not make someone homosexual, as I'm not one.

What I do know is that I'm capable of being physically attracted to men without being aroused by men.