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Why should there not be a person who finds that scenario superlatively hot? I know a healthy handful of women whose tendencies lean that way. As fantasy material it's full of lovely things. Not my particular bag, of course, but that's not point.
If you mean the actual story, on the other hand, I think it's sad for lots of reasons. Like "when you pay a woman for sex and she wants to not orgasm and she's made to orgasm anyway, even if you think 'that's pleasure and so it's awesome', it's still a breach of her volition and the terms under which she agreed to get naked and fuck around." I'm not gonna call it rape, because it's not rape, and the whole situation is ambiguous in the first place, but if she clearly didn't want it and he did not specifically contract with her for an orgasm, it's just... sad. Sad because it's the physical-intimacy version of fucking over a business partner or something like that. I kind of can't help but stick my damn armchair psychologist nose into what sort of man has this sort of pleasure and uh I got some conclusions and none of them are about what a warm-hearted and generous dude Patrice is.
But I also think someone here on Caltrops once talked about or quoted the idea that stand-up comedy is about grabbing the wheel, and this sort of kink is definitely on those lines.
Tangent: there exists a variety of lesbian called the "stone butch" - she tends to be very masculine in appearance and approach, and she doesn't want to be touched sexually all; she only wants to do for her partner. But that's all consensual, her and her partner already know all about that stuff when they start getting sexually involved in the first place. I don't think the "want to do and not be done unto" part of the Patrice story is all that uncommon, not even for men. |
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Patrice O'Neal had a stroke. by Moom 8( 10/27/2011, 9:10am PDT
I think we are the only two people left on caltrops by sdroa jists 10/27/2011, 10:13am PDT
This is now a Patrice tribute thread by Horrible Gelatinous Blob 10/27/2011, 1:36pm PDT
A tragedy. NT by Ice Cream Jonsey 10/27/2011, 8:18pm PDT
:( by Mischief Maker 10/28/2011, 1:05am PDT
Old Jim Norton story about Patrice in Brazil by Horrible Gelatinous Blob 11/01/2011, 9:17pm PDT
Re: Old Jim Norton story about Patrice in Brazil by Mysterio Hive Mind 11/02/2011, 5:30pm PDT
I'd like ndd to comment on that assertion NT by - 11/03/2011, 12:13pm PDT
what really? by ndd 11/03/2011, 1:44pm PDT
Sociopath is perfect. Look at all the rules he violated and how exciting it is. NT by Gutsby 11/03/2011, 9:32pm PDT
Keep your weird sexual fetishes out of my Patrice tribute thread NT by Horrible Gelatinous Blob 11/03/2011, 1:00pm PDT
And to make it perfectly clear... by Mischief Maker 11/03/2011, 11:41pm PDT
Disappointing. NT by Mysterio Hive Mind 11/04/2011, 11:53am PDT
Patrice vs. Gallagher by Horrible Gelatinous Blob 11/03/2011, 1:03pm PDT
Patrice said he got the word "niglet" from Gallagher. by Jhohward n Jsostein 11/03/2011, 1:12pm PDT
I thought I responded to this before by Fullofkittens 03/03/2012, 5:17pm PST
It was not without purpose by Vested Id 10/27/2011, 11:08pm PDT
Patrice died this morning. :( NT by Horrible Gelatinous Blob 11/29/2011, 11:02am PST
He should've been a thousand times more famous. by Jhohward n Jsostein 11/29/2011, 5:47pm PST
Everyone should be reading my twitter really. by Jhohward n Jsostein 11/29/2011, 5:58pm PST
Further Injustice by Mischief Maker 11/30/2011, 9:37am PST
Patrice never suffered hacks gladly by Horrible Gelatinous Blob 11/30/2011, 11:38am PST
Re: Further Injustice by i_hate_goons.vbs 12/01/2011, 7:21am PST
Chris Rock and Bill Burr (also Joe Derosa) also tribute n stories. by Jhohward n Jsostein 12/06/2011, 9:18pm PST
This is really good. NT by Ice Cream Jonsey 12/06/2011, 9:42pm PST
Zseni will love this one by Mischief Maker 12/06/2011, 11:52pm PST
Re: Patrice O'Neal had a stroke. by Ice Cream Jonsey 03/03/2012, 3:07pm PST
Earthquake's coming to town this year. I'm not gonna fuck around and miss it by like I did Patrice. 03/03/2012, 8:26pm PST
This might be my favorite off-the-cuff Patrice radio moment by Horrible Gelatinous Blob 03/03/2012, 8:49pm PST
Evil Opie (and some more Patrice gold). by Claborsar 03/03/2012, 10:04pm PST
Patrice on WTF by Horrible Gelatinous Blob 03/03/2012, 10:20pm PST
Re: Patrice on WTF by Ice Cream Jonsey 03/04/2012, 9:58am PST
"Why you in a garbage can?" really did it to me by Entropy Stew 03/04/2012, 7:21pm PST
in Elephant In The Room by Fullofkitttens 03/26/2012, 11:48am PDT
Re: in Elephant In The Room by Arbit 03/26/2012, 4:24pm PDT
Ctrl-C, Ctrl-V. NT by Pulitzer Maker 03/26/2012, 5:34pm PDT
She's not even that black! She's a high yellow, at best. by Racial Arbiter 03/26/2012, 6:49pm PDT
Re: Patrice O'Neal had a stroke. by Shredder 12/08/2012, 1:05pm PST
Re: Patrice O'Neal had a stroke. by 8) 12/02/2016, 10:40pm PST
Question to Caltrops about this by Mysterio 12/02/2016, 10:51pm PST
Let him answer that one himself! by Mischief Maker 12/02/2016, 11:03pm PST
How the fuck you gonna kill a bitch with a block of ice? Put it in a sock and by hit her with it? 12/02/2016, 11:28pm PST
Be cool, bitch! Chill out! I'm all out of puns but I ain't done hitting you yet! NT by (Still better than Hep A.) 12/02/2016, 11:32pm PST
Ugh! Is this Kain Carter? NT by Mischief Maker 12/03/2016, 7:59am PST
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