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Use the "m" rule by Commander Tansin A. Darcos 10/08/2022, 6:27pm PDT
Brody Wilder wrote:

Is it "appointing who you like as the child's guardian", or "appointing whom you like as the child's guardian"? I need to know before they pull the plug. Thx.

A simple way I found is the "m" rule. If you could restate the sentence to use a personal pronoun, if it works - is grammatically correct - with "he", "her", or "they", use who; if it it works with "him", "she" or "them", use whom.

Let's rewrite the sentence:
"appointing him as the child's guardian"
"appointing her as the child's guardian"
"appointing them as the child's guardian"
vs.
"appointing he as the child's guardian"
"appointing she as the child's guardian"
"appointing they as the child's guardian"

Clearly, the "m" versions work here. Thus "whom" is the correct usage in the original sentence. The technical explanation is that "who" is used in the subject case, "whom" is used in the object case. I found the "m" rule is an easier way to remember which is which. Or rather, who is whom.

The same rule applies for "whoever" and "whomever" too.

A really great example of this is in The Mamas and the Papas song, "Go Where You Wanna Go":

You better go where you wanna go
Do what you wanna do
With whomever you want to do it with.

This usage is perfectly correct. Rewriting it using the "m" rule as "Go with he, if you want to" or "Go with him, if you want to," the latter is correct and thus "whomever" was the correct usage.
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