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Re: What do you look for in a potential date?
[quote name="laudablepuss"]I'm still pretty new to this scene, so I'm mainly trying to just meet people and figure it out. Initially, and sometimes still, I'll get a message and I'm too nervous to reply until I hide and think about it for 10 minutes lol. I mostly wait for guys to message me, and that's been working pretty well. Then I have to decide if I want to meet em or if they're too weird or something. Some people get weirdly aggressive too. I told one guy I'm not super interested in topping (at least not for him) but he was like, not having it? It was like talking to a Seattle homeless person after you've said you don't have any cash. Also, sadly, I'm old, so a lot of *quite elderly* guys message me. I'm not there yet, man. Maybe not surprisingly, I've been dating younger guys. But being a fem guy is a bit different. Lots of guys, many "straight", just want someone in-between girlfriends or for just one night. The other day I was at the bar still at 1:30 am, near closing, and was getting ready to leave when I swear the hottest guy in the bar came up and started hitting on me O_O So that's a chieve, of sorts, being the cutest option available at bar time? lol I guess it's too soon to say what I really want. I'm just trying to be out there and try things.[/quote]