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[quote name="Quétinbec"]Because today the Gypsy asked for my Skype details! I haven't spoken to her in 2 years! How is that for timing? We didn't talk, though - we just typed. :( Nothing very interesting, but it's the gypsy, baby!!! ... [4:54:47 PM] [QB]: so where are you and what are you doing? [4:54:59 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: me still in romania [4:55:07 PM] [QB]: why? [4:55:17 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: have a garden and a broody hen [4:55:21 PM] [QB]: hahhaha [4:55:27 PM] [QB]: well, that's not the kinda thing you'd want to leave behind [4:55:48 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: i'll wait for my sisters wedding in mid june and then i wanna go to turkey for a bit [4:56:09 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: and next year do some european funded voluntary service in spain [4:56:20 PM] [QB]: that sounds very you [4:56:28 PM] [QB]: what happened to your fiancee? [4:56:53 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: we weren't officialy engaged [4:57:00 PM] [QB]: official enough to email people about it [4:57:11 PM] [QB]: haha [4:57:30 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: that was long ago - one year after that i told him the proposal expired [4:57:33 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: :) [4:57:37 PM] [QB]: haha [4:57:59 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: we were still together but not engaged anymore [4:58:09 PM] [QB]: that's a bit awkward [4:58:22 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: and some weeks ago i told him it won't last and we broke up [4:58:32 PM] [QB]: well, i almost got a girl pregnant [4:58:42 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: (rofl) [4:58:44 PM] [QB]: almost in that she lied to me about it to try and force a marriage [4:58:48 PM] [QB]: haha [4:58:53 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: Almost, what that means ? [4:58:58 PM] [QB]: see above [4:59:04 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: got it [4:59:15 PM] [QB]: quite tramatic, actually [4:59:20 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: it wuldn't be the first one to try n force u marry her [4:59:21 PM] [QB]: for 4 days i thought i was a father [4:59:32 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: man, you got something for this girls [4:59:35 PM] [QB]: hahah [4:59:41 PM] [QB]: yeah, what's worse is that we're still talking [4:59:45 PM] [QB]: or skyping [4:59:53 PM] [QB]: her parents are very wealthy, you see [4:59:55 PM] [QB]: hahah [5:00:15 PM] [QB]: i really need to prioritize better with these girls [5:00:27 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: haha [5:00:32 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: no you don't [5:00:37 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: u can't plan romance [5:00:43 PM] [QB]: sure you can [5:00:44 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: doh [5:00:46 PM] [QB]: have you ever tried? [5:00:50 PM] [QB]: i have [5:00:52 PM] [QB]: and it works [5:00:53 PM] [QB]: with time [5:00:59 PM] [QB]: she came here and spent a month with me [5:01:00 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: me to - it didn't worked [5:01:05 PM] [QB]: i thought that would be all it takes [5:01:10 PM] [QB]: maybe yyou weren't trying hard enough [5:01:14 PM] [QB]: anyway, me and her [5:01:21 PM] [QB]: it got close to being a very strong love [5:01:28 PM] [QB]: i'd say we got 80% of the way [5:01:35 PM] [QB]: and that' sreally good for a month together [5:01:39 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: good for you! :) [5:01:46 PM] [QB]: not really [5:01:50 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: bring on the next months [5:01:52 PM] [QB]: because then she lied about being pregnant [5:01:59 PM] [QB]: after returning home to taiwan [5:02:05 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: ah, that girl [5:02:07 PM] [QB]: yeah, same one [5:02:24 PM] [QB]: anyway! [5:02:52 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: you wannted to be a father? [5:03:03 PM] [QB]: yeah, after i got that idea in my head [5:03:04 PM] [QB]: it stayed there [5:03:11 PM] [QB]: and that's why it's been so hard to get rid of this girl [5:03:19 PM] [QB]: i was looking for bigger apartments [5:03:24 PM] [QB]: more practical cars [5:03:28 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: awh...:) [5:03:32 PM] [QB]: i almost told our HR department [5:03:37 PM] [QB]: which would have been very embarrassing [5:03:44 PM] [QB]: i totally talked myself into this girl [5:03:48 PM] [QB]: after i thought i was stuck with her [5:03:54 PM] [QB]: and it's proving difficult to talk myself out [5:04:00 PM] [QB]: even after finding out she lied [5:04:18 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: u see this is not ok, talking urself into something that is not authentic [5:04:27 PM] [QB]: why not? [5:04:37 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: i bet u super smart guy and could figure out all steps in any situation [5:04:38 PM] [QB]: and who cares if it's not authentic so long as the end result is love? [5:04:48 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: but it has to somehow come from within [5:05:03 PM] [QB]: some feelings just need a bit more prompting [5:05:25 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: but u only had thought, reason-not feeling [5:05:36 PM] [QB]: thought leads feeling [5:05:40 PM] [QB]: feeling follows thought [5:05:48 PM] [QB]: that's a better way to be [5:05:51 PM] [QB]: that way you're in control [5:06:03 PM] [QB]: maybe you get lucky and this stuff happens [5:06:06 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: maybe :) [5:06:06 PM] [QB]: but i'm 28 now [5:06:11 PM] [QB]: so fuck luck [5:06:14 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: old luke [5:06:20 PM] [QB]: i'm making things happen [5:06:26 PM] [QB]: and maybe this girl's a bit fucked up [5:06:27 PM] [QB]: in many ways [5:06:28 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: haha, this is funny - u now like mum [5:06:38 PM] [QB]: but her parents are worth 30 million aussy dollars [5:06:41 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: after i told her i broke up she came at me with this [5:06:45 PM] [QB]: so that's adequate compensation, right? [5:07:03 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: "at ur age, who's gonna even look at u from now on" [5:07:12 PM] [QB]: she's wise [5:07:18 PM] [QB]: my ex is 35 now [5:07:26 PM] [QB]: she's a princess [5:07:27 PM] [QB]: so lovely [5:07:41 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: let me guess [5:07:43 PM] [QB]: but she can't get anyone but divorcees and very overweight or underemployed people [5:07:58 PM] [QB]: it's not fair but that's the way it is [5:08:03 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: small, asian, precios, neding to be saved [5:08:04 PM] [QB]: no one gives a fuck about personality [5:08:06 PM] [QB]: hahahah [5:08:09 PM] [QB]: yeah, pretty much [5:08:33 PM] [QB]: it's all about circumstance, proximity, and looks ... [5:09:29 PM] [QB]: and there are prostiutes in every bar [5:09:42 PM] [QB]: things fall apart for even the most 'loyal' guy [5:09:51 PM] [QB]: and they get away with it [5:09:55 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: but not u? [5:09:59 PM] [QB]: i'm keeping more secrets here than i've ever kept before [5:10:00 PM] [QB]: hahah [5:10:05 PM] [QB]: and i'm terrible at keeping secrets! [5:10:18 PM] [QB]: i don't have a gilrfriend right now [5:10:33 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: i don't belive in secrets [5:10:34 PM] [QB]: me and the wealthy taiwanese girl broke up after i visited her in taiwan two weeks ago [5:10:38 PM] [QB]: i still think about her [5:10:44 PM] [QB]: and probably still love her [5:10:50 PM] [QB]: and if nothing else comes along, we'll probably get married [5:10:52 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: in ur head [5:10:54 PM] [QB]: and it will be alright [5:11:09 PM] [QB]: because everyone's got good qualities [5:11:14 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: as long as u are willing to tell urself that [5:11:19 PM] [QB]: and it's hard to have a bad life with 30 million in the bank [5:11:20 PM] [QB]: hahah [5:11:24 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: but what when u grow tired? [5:11:31 PM] [QB]: just try harder [5:11:37 PM] [QB]: or try different things [5:12:10 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: i mean... why not! is not like mariage is supposed to last forever [5:12:25 PM] [QB]: i wouldn't get divorced [5:12:31 PM] [QB]: everyone in my family has stayed married [5:12:38 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: hahaha [5:12:39 PM] [QB]: and split families fuck kids up [5:12:48 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: i don't agree [5:12:53 PM] [QB]: if i cheated, it would be with a prostitute [5:12:59 PM] [QB]: someone i couldn't develop a relationship with [5:13:02 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: i'm fucked up with my parents still married [5:13:09 PM] [QB]: hahhaah [5:13:16 PM] [QB]: yeah, aid work in spain [5:13:29 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: not really aid [5:13:32 PM] [QB]: sort yourself out first [5:13:41 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: and is just because i really suck at real jobs [5:13:48 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: just don't care about them [5:13:48 PM] [QB]: come to the middle east [5:13:59 PM] [QB]: they'll pay you 100,000 tax free to play hang man with arabs! [5:14:05 PM] [QB]: 14 hours a week! [5:14:11 PM] [The Gypsy!!!!]: not yet, but i'd love to join u south america [/quote]